Thank you for your offerings last week of £1,566. Attendance 832. |
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17th March (Saturday Vigil) |
Fifth Sunday of Lent 6pm Dorota Krotoff RIP & Danuta Kukula
RIP (S Kukula) |
Sunday 18th March |
9.15am Francesca Sio RIP (Sio Family) 11am People of The Parish |
Monday 19th March |
Saint Joseph 9.30am Mick Brace RIP (G Tomkins) Doreen Bowman
& Ray O’Connor RIP (A Parker & Family) |
Tuesday 20th March |
Feria 9.30am HE & ME Winn RIP (Simon & Winn Families) |
Wednesday 21st March |
Feria 9.30am Jeremy Casey RIP (B&G Head) |
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10.45am Eucharistic Adoration |
Thursday 22nd March |
Feria |
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9.30am Gerry McQuinlan RIP (L Morgan) |
Friday 23rd March |
Feria 9.30am Deceased Members of
The Brown Family (M Clark) |
24th March (Saturday Vigil) |
Palm Sunday of The Passion Of The Lord 6pm Tom Benson RIP (Benson Family) |
25th March |
9.15am Francesca Sio RIP (Sio Family) 11am Christopher Walsh
RIP (Benson Family) |
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Confessions heard Saturday
5.00-5.45pm or by appointment.
Morning Prayer: Takes place Monday –
Friday at 9.10am. All are welcome to
attend.
Pondering the Word (Lectio Divina)
A quiet reflective look
at the following Sunday’s Gospel. Mondays
11am - 12 noon, except for Bank Holidays, here in the church. All welcome.
Sunday Mornings in the Community Centre
Every Sunday coffee and tea
are served after the 9.15am and 11am Masses.
Please join us for a while and get to know each other over a cuppa!
Second Collection
This week’s second collection is for the Parish Maintenance Fund also
the new boxes of gift aid envelopes will be available for collection. Please take your box.
Fr David writes…
Life begins in loss. To be born, one has to
leave and let go of the warmth and security of the womb. There is no birth without letting go. And that same pattern is repeated
consistently all through our lives. We have to feel the pain of separation from our parents in
order to experience the world of education from a very young age for example. There is always a death of some sort every
time we choose and risk to experience something new. I remember very distinctly the psychological
and emotional anguish I had to go through as I was discerning to move away from
the Missionary Society I had been part of for 21 years. They had practically raised me up as I used
to attend also the secondary college the same Order led. The identity of the order had become
indistinguishable from my own. We were
one. I felt content for a long time with
them. My spiritual and human formation
revolved around the charism of the Order.
And in 1989, I made a public vow that I was going to be part of the
Order for the rest of my life in front of my family and friends. I had genuinely think that that was going to
be the case. Publicly and privately I
had committed myself to the Order.
So in my late thirties,
when restlessness somehow engulfed me, I felt terrified. I literally had panic attacks at night just
imagining that I might leave the Order. All
my security and identity were linked with the Missionary Society of St Paul. Who would I be, if I am not a member of the
Order? I grappled for years to let go. I knew though that if I had to remain, I
would be remaining for the wrong reasons as I did not feel any kind of
emotional connection with them any longer.
I would have remained for the sake of security. I also knew that I had lost all my inner
peace and contentment. I knew that if I
remained, something in me was going to die.
After a long period of soul searching I decided
to leave and something in me was lifted up.
I could breathe again. Of course
I felt frightened and still very unstable, but I felt a sense of rightness in
regards my decision. Something in me got
liberated. Looking back now, I marvel at
the strength of my inner resources which made me make the move. At the age of 40, I had to start all over
again in many ways. However, the journey
made me stronger and hopefully wiser. Because
of letting go, I today feel blessed with where my life had led me to. I wouldn’t have been who I am today, if I
hadn’t allowed my desire for authenticity to lead me.
“Unless a grain of
wheat falls to the ground and dies, it remains just a grain of wheat, but if it
dies, it produces much fruit”. Jesus’
death is ahead of him. The hour has
arrived. The pilgrims are arriving in
Jerusalem for the feast of the Passover, including some Greek converts who want
to see Jesus. At this Passover feast the
sacrificial lamb will be Jesus himself. Now
the time has come for Jesus when there is no more time. He must face the loss of freedom, the loss of
friends, the loss of support and the loss of his life. He is in anguish – these losses trouble him. Yet he rejects the temptation to ask the
Father to save him from what is to come.
In this portrayal Jesus is aware that the pain and the loss cannot be
avoided if the Father’s name is to be glorified. There is going to be gain from the pain. It is in our most challenging experiences
that we discover what we are made of. It
is during our darkest nights that we find the light of possibility. To transform our lives in
order to become the people we are meant to be, begins by dying to those
ambitions, projects and fears we cling to and embrace the values, wisdom and
grace that give meaning and purpose to our lives. Jesus acknowledges that such change is hard,
the struggle to change is in itself an experience of
death. But such transformation is
necessary if such resurrection can be experienced.
The gospel of the grain of wheat is Christ’s assurance
to us of the great things we can do and the powerful
works we can accomplish by dying to self and rising to the love and compassion
of Jesus. Life demands change, risk and
a certain kind of dying to our fears, despair and sense of self. We only can accomplish change though if we first of all believe that the change is the right thing to
do. Secondly, we must believe that we
are being carried by God’s faithfulness.
Looking back, I would have never taken the risk to move out from my
comfort zone into the unknown without believing that my God was not going to
accompany and take care of me. I knew
deep down that it was necessary for my own sanity and wellbeing that I needed
to take the risk. I had no idea where
life was going to take me after that decision.
I just trusted. I trusted both in
the flow of life and also in God’s faithfulness
towards me. I pray for the people in our
parish that are experiencing the scary invitation to let go of the familiar in order to plunge themselves in the unknown at the moment. I pray that you would find the right people
and circumstances to help you at this time of uncertainty. I also pray that God will give you the
courage to let go in order for new life would emerge.
“Drop-In”
Evening Surgeries
Please note that the
next surgery will be on Wednesday the 11th April 2018. Fr David will be available at 281A Crescent Drive
from 5.00-7.00pm and no appointment is necessary.
Holy Baptism
This weekend we welcome, Varden
Henry Martin Callaghan and his parents Michael and Lisa; Axel Kumar Dunn and
his parents Jonathan and Nisha; and Olivia Isabelle Dutton and her parents
Edward and Nicola.
Bible found in the car park
A bible was found in the bushes of the Parish car park
this week. It looks loved and very much
used and quite possibly someone is missing it very much. Please contact the Parish Office if you have
lost it or know someone it may belong to.
Pastoral Pillar
Helplines and Counselling
Services
As part of our care for the community a list of helplines and counselling
services has now been added to the parish website and also, placed in the
porch. The purpose of this is to give
contact details of various organisations which can provide help in difficult
times thereby enabling people to seek privately the information and support
they may need.
Liturgy Pillar
Eucharist Adoration
This takes place for an hour each Wednesday shortly after the morning Mass starting at 10.45 am and
finishing at 11.45 am. This Devotion
to the Eucharist is a time of silent prayer and quiet music. Everyone is welcome for all or part of this
time of prayer before the Blessed Sacrament.
First Friday of Month
- Eucharist Adoration also takes place on the 1st Friday of each month from 7.30–9.00pm and concludes
with Benediction. Everyone is welcome
for all or part of this time of prayer before the Blessed Sacrament.
Mass in celebration of
the Sacrament of Marriage
St George’s Cathedral 16th June 2018. If you are celebrating your 1st,
10th, 25th, 40th, 50th or 60th+
wedding anniversary this year and would like to attend the Mass then please
give your names as soon as possible. Forms
can be found at the back of the church.
Evangelisation Pillar
Lenten Programme
Stations
of the Cross
Every Sunday in Lent at
4.00pm.
Re-enactment
of the Stations of the Cross – Palm Sunday
A Re-enactment of the
Stations of the Cross for the whole family is being produced on Sunday the 25th
March at 4.00pm – Palm Sunday. We are looking for Actors and Readers. All the family may take part in this Devotion. There will be two rehearsals:
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Saturday
the 24th March at 3pm – 4pm
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Sunday
the 25th March at 2pm – 3pm.
Come and experience the passion and death of Christ by
being part of the Greatest Story ever told.
Święconka
Polish
traditional blessing of Easter Baskets
Easter Saturday, 31st March, 11am - Please
join us in continuing to celebrate this colourful and engaging tradition by
bringing your own “Święconka” to St James’ for a short (15-20 min)
blessing service. Blessing will be done
in Polish and English. All very welcome.
Social Pillar
Community
Centre
The St James’ Social Club is responsible
for the running and licensing of the bar in the Community Centre. The AGM will be held on Sunday 22 April at
12.30 pm after the 11.00 am Mass in the Community Centre. The items on the agenda will be as follows:
1. Minutes
of the last AGM
2. Election
of Committee for 2018/2019
3. Financial
Report
4. Any
Other Business
All are welcome to attend.
Wednesday Morning Coffee
We are in urgent need for new people to go onto the
Wednesday morning coffee rota. If you
are interested, please contact the parish office.
Monday Club
Mondays 1.30pm to 4pm
in the Community Centre.
. Meet
others.
. Opportunity
for fun and good company.
. Now
is your chance to play…
. Discover
new interests…
. Afternoon
tea and chat.
. You
are all very welcome.
Children's Easter Egg Hunt Easter Sunday, 1st April
The Friends
of St James’ invite the children of the Parish to an Easter egg hunt taking
place after the 9.15am Mass on Easter Sunday. Children will be provided with a basket
to collect the eggs and the cost will be £3 per child payable on the day. Let's hope the April showers stay away. If they do, the hunt will take place in the Parish
garden. If not, it will be in the
Community Centre.
Youth Pillar
Confirmandi
Fundraising Event
On Sat March 24th after the 6pm mass the Confirmandi
are running an event to raise funds for St.
Catherine’s in the Philippines. Tickets
can be ordered after every mass this weekend or through the parish office. Payment is on the night.
Come along and enjoy a quiz, some karaoke, cocktails
and mocktails. There will be a BBQ and
entertainment for our younger guests.
Looking
forward to seeing you all on the 24th. Confirmandi
Group 2018.
Careers Fair
As part of the CYM
programme for this year, we are currently planning a Careers Fair for young
people on Saturday 21st
April from 10.30-2.30pm here at St James’.
The aim of this event is to assist and equip young
people in making decisions regarding their future and to provide information
and guidance on a range of opportunities available to them, such as:
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Interview skills training
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CV assistance and advice
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Peer Ministry & GAP year opportunities
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Vocations advice
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Modern day apprenticeships
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Information stands:
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NHS
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Teaching
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Armed Forces
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Workshop talks/ Q&A re: pursuing faith at
University, advice and guidance for parents
We would be very grateful for any help on the day and
particularly with interview training, CV writing or general advice regarding
any of the opportunities or industries listed above. If you would like to become involved or know
of individuals who may have key experience or core skills to share, please get
in touch. All suggestions, comments and
ideas regarding the plan for this event are welcome and encouraged. Please contact Susan Longhurst on -susan.longhurst@bromleydeanery.org.
Thank you.
Message from Stella Delf
I’m getting
ready to run the Brighton Marathon on the 15th April (my first marathon!). I'm going to be running for Cancer Research
UK and I'm looking for sponsors and cake eaters to help me raise money for this
amazing cause. If you would like to give
your support, I'll be at the back of the church with a sponsorship form on the
24th and 25th March and will be hosting a cake sale at
the end of the masses on the 7th and 8th April. You can also donate via my giving page: https://fundraise.cancerresearchuk.org/page/stellas-giving-page
Thank you, Stella
Delf
200 Club
Firstly, thank you so much for joining the 200 Club which has proved to
be a great success in the past year with over £6000
being raised for Church funds.
We now have 181 members and since April last year there have been 39
winners, one parishioner winning twice, two winning £500 each in the Summer and
Christmas draws.
The new year starts on 1st April with the first draw taking place on the
2nd Sunday of each month. As many of you
paid by cheque last year and assuming you wish to continue paying this way I
shall be grateful if you will send a cheque for £60 payable to St James 200
Club for the attention of Ken Evans at the Parish Office – 281A Crescent Drive,
Petts Wood. BR5 1AY.
If, however you wish to pay
by standing order at £5 per month (payable on the 1st of the month) please
contact Ken on 01689 851793. I do hope
you will continue to support this excellent fund-raising initiative and thank
you again for your generous support.
200 Club
winners!
£100 Romilly Turton Number 78
£50 Mrs Suzie Mataj Number 175
£25 Mrs Helen Wright Number 20
£25 Mrs Danielle Scutts Number 115
Congratulations to our
winners.
GIFT AID
A very big thanks to
all who have gift-aided their offertory and 2nd collection donations as well as
their donations to the Maintenance/Refurbishment Fund during the 2017/18 tax
year.
Your boxes of new Gift
Aid envelopes (with your name on) for the coming 2018/19 tax year are now ready
in the porch, along the back of church, for you to collect.
If you cannot find your
box, please speak to Geoff Ford (the Gift Aid Administrator) – email him at gift.aid@stjamespettswood.org
or he can usually be found in the "counting room" at church after
11am Mass on Sundays.
Please note, the amount
of Income Tax and/or Capital Gains Tax you pay or will pay during a tax year
must be at least equal * to the total amount of tax that all Charities (i.e. not just St James’) will reclaim on your
gift-aided donations to them for that tax year.
Other taxes such as VAT and Council Tax do not qualify.
* You must have paid at
least 25 pence in Income/Capital Gains Tax for every £1 of gift-aided donation
you make to all Charities (i.e. £25 tax
for every £100 given). If you pay less
Income/ Capital Gains Tax than the amount of Gift Aid claimed on all your
donations in that tax year, it is your responsibility to pay any difference to
HMRC.
Please also speak to
Geoff if:
a)
you
are unsure that you will have paid adequate tax,
b) you wish to know the total recorded
amount of your offerings,
c) you move or marry and change your name. (It is important that our record of your name
and address is recognisable to the tax man.)
d) you wish to transfer your gift aid
donations into your spouse’s name (perhaps because you have stopped working and
no longer pay tax),
e)
you
would like to Gift Aid your contributions to St James’ but have not yet
completed a Declaration Form.
As every charity will tell you, by gift-aiding your
donations your contributions are substantially increased at absolutely no cost
whatsoever to you. If you are not
already in our Gift Aid scheme, all you have to do is sign a Declaration Form
enabling the Church to recover the tax you will have already paid before making
your donation.
Standing Orders
If you make your weekly
offering to St James’ by standing order, please still take your box of
envelopes. Your box will include special
envelopes for Diocesan second collections and for Easter/Christmas offerings
which are not included in standing orders.
If you wish to make a standing order with St James’
please email or speak to Geoff before arranging it with your bank.
Justice & Peace
Manna Centre Collection
Weekend 24-25th
March
Our
Parish’s next collection for the Manna Centre, a charity working to support
women and men who are homeless in London is taking place next weekend. The parish has been very generous in previous
years and we hope this will continue. Items
that are particularly needed include:
Kitchen rolls
Toilet
rolls
Sleeping
bags
Blankets
Men’s
toiletries including disposable razors and soap
Warm men’s clothing
including socks, underwear and trousers
Take a look at the display at the back of the church for more
information about the Manna Society and its work, or contact Nick Babb from the
Justice & Peace Group (nick.babb@stjamespettswood.org).
Foodbank current list
The Foodbank has at last run out of soup! So tinned soup is now back on the list of
requirements, but incredibly they still don’t need pasta or baked beans. Other items needed are tinned potatoes, long
life milk and fruit juice, rice, pulses, shampoo and toothbrushes. Thanks to our contributors, we have delivered
an average of 35kg to the Foodbank each week this year so far.
Polite Reminder
The Parish
disabled parking spaces are for Blue Badge holders only.
Pastoral Pillar
Helplines and Counselling
Services
As part of our care for the community a list of helplines and counselling
services has now been added to the parish website and also, placed in the
porch. The purpose of this is to give
contact details of various organisations which can provide help in difficult
times thereby enabling people to seek privately the information and support
they may need.
Seeing a Chaplain if
You Are Admitted to Hospital
·
Protecting personal information (data protection) is really
important when you become an inpatient in hospital.
·
So please specifically ask hospital
staff to pass on your details
to the hospital’s Roman Catholic chaplain as soon as you are admitted if you
would like a Chaplain to visit you.
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Fr David would always be very happy to visit you too, so please ask a
relative or friend to let him know about your admission. You, or they, can email Fr David on father.david@stjamespettswood.org, or phone the parish office on 01689
827100.
Outside the Parish
National
Catholic Men’s Pilgrimage to Walsingham
Sunday 22nd April 2018, 10.30-17.30
A warm invitation to the first, annual pilgrimage for
Catholic men. Meet, talk and share the
faith with other men; listen to speakers, celebrate confession and Mass, pray
for families and for the country; process to the old Abbey grounds for
Benediction. We welcome lay and
religious, single and married, young and old, fathers and sons. "When England returns to Walsingham,
Our Lady will return to England". Pope
Leo XIII, 1887
In partnership with the Catholic National Shrine of
Our Lady and Catholic Man UK. For more
information visit www.catholicman.co.uk
Lenten Talks by Canon Leonard Mintoff
At St John the Baptist,
Westerham. Monday 12th – Friday 16th
March 7.30pm Mass followed by talk.
Weekend Rotas: Thank you for helping.
Saturday 24th March 2018 |
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Cleaning the Church |
S Lams, L Monsah, D Generowicz, K Salter |
Wednesday Coffee 21st March |
No volunteers |
25th March 2018 |
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Mass |
Saturday 6pm (Vigil) |
Sunday 9.15am |
Sunday 11am |
Welcomers |
K
Kirby |
D
& C Hairs |
L
McDonald S
May |
Readers |
Please
sign the form at the back of the church if you wish to take part in reading
the Passion. |
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Ministers of Holy Communion |
J
Bajorek H
Rothon M
Cahill C
Cahill R
Wright |
D
Hairs B
Cotta W
David B
D’Arcy T
Forde |
Z
Bajorek T
Troy A
Bunnage P
Murray V
Terry |
Bar |
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P
Cosgrave R
Monaghan |
Coffee |
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L
Lynch S
Barradell |
P
Flockhart A
Huntington S
Ingle |
Altar Servers |
J
McCabe R&F
Norman Brown A
Poulton N
Cracknell P
Marshall |
L
Delamain |
V
Marcolina F
Ikenye P
Kukula |
Tellers |
P
Cosgrave, P Dabrowski |