Thank you for your offerings last week of £1,496. Mass attendance 686. |
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10th March (Saturday Vigil) |
Fourth Sunday Of Lent 6pm Anthony Olivelle RIP (M Olivelle) |
Sunday 11th March |
9.15am Francesca Sio RIP (Sio
Family) 11am People of The Parish |
Monday 12th March |
Feria 9.30am Jimmie & Mary
O’Connor |
Tuesday 13th March |
Feria 9.30am James Mulroy (G Mulroy) |
Wednesday 14th March (Please note change of time) |
Feria Mass at St James’ School Year 4 Mass – All Welcome 9am John McDevitt RIP (Bunnage Family) |
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10.45am Eucharistic Adoration |
Thursday 15th March |
Feria |
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9.30am Tom Duffey RIP (T
Forde) |
Friday 16th March |
Feria 9.30am Fr David Camilleri |
17th March (Saturday Vigil) |
Fifth Sunday of Lent 6pm Dorota Krotoff RIP & Danuta Kukula
RIP (S Kukula) |
Sunday 18th March |
9.15am Francesca Sio
RIP (Sio Family) 11am People of The Parish |
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Confessions heard Saturday
5.00-5.45pm or by appointment.
Morning Prayer: Takes place Monday –
Friday at 9.10am. All are welcome to
attend.
Pondering the Word (Lectio Divina)
A quiet reflective look
at the following Sunday’s Gospel. Mondays
11am - 12 noon, except for Bank Holidays, here in the church. All welcome.
Sunday Mornings in the Community Centre
Every Sunday coffee and tea
are served after the 9.15am and 11am Masses.
Please join us for a while and get to know each other over a cuppa!
Second Collection
Next week’s second collection is for the Parish Maintenance Fund also
the new boxes of gift aid envelopes will be available for collection. Please take your box.
Fr David writes…
We have an intrinsic
desire to love and be loved. I truly
believe that the deepest wound that anyone can possess is the one of feeling
unlovable – believing that you are intrinsically damaged. In today’s world, the real spiritual pain
around is to live a life encumbered by baggage from the past. Carrying stuff that we feel we cannot even
forgive ourselves for. We try to numb
the pain of guilt and shame by escaping into frantic lives of activism or
addiction. We live a life in the dark. What can we do with all this baggage inside
of us? Stopping or being in silence
means coming face to face with our true selves resulting in self-loathing. We start to blame ourselves for our fate,
misfortunes and past. With blame comes
anger. And when anger sets in, it can
easily move into depression. This is
when darkness sets in. And seeing no way
out – pushes us into despair. We can
live an existence in existential malaise.
The worst thing we can
do in these circumstances is to isolate ourselves. This can actually be
dangerous. And yet it is easy to fall
into this temptation because in these moments, our focus turns inward, leaving
us no energy to look outside of ourselves and reach out for help. Our salvation comes in the form of a very
loving person who tries to penetrate the thick shell that we build around us to
protect and punish ourselves at the same time.
And yet only the gift of the realisation of being loved, with our warts
and all, will free us from our primeval wound of self-rejection. The gift of a person in our lives who can see
us as we are, who has the ability to see through our
masks that we create and yet deeply love us, is the greatest gift of all. On the other hand, our greatest fear is that
if people really see through us, and really get too close to really know us,
they would reject us. So we prefer to
live our lives harbouring secrets and guarding ourselves against
self-disclosure. We waste so much time
rejecting love from others. However it
is only true unconditional love that really can heal and liberate us. Once we risk opening ourselves to be loved,
we are transformed into light.
In today’s gospel a
Pharisee Nicodemus goes to talk to Jesus in the night. Only John the Evangelist speaks of Nicodemus
who is a distinguished character among the Pharisees. He was perhaps a member of the great
Sanhedrin, who, taking advantage of the darkness and silence of the night goes
to Jesus, not to be seen by his colleagues.
He goes to Jesus in secret. Nicodemus
is in search of light and intuits that Jesus, the young Rabbi, could give it to
him. In his encounter with Nicodemus,
Jesus challenges him and us, to rethink our understanding and image of God. Jesus reveals a much bigger God than we can
imagine. A God who does not condemn but
loves, who does not punish but lifts up. Who does not destroy but reconciles. God is not about death but about life. God’s Son comes as a Light and Healer to
enable us to realise and experience the great love and mercy of God. God so much loves us that, by his grace, he
recreates our darkest nights into the morning light of hope. In reality encountering
Jesus, like Nicodemus, is the only way how we can feel reconciled with
ourselves, others and God. Some of us
might be carrying baggage from the past.
We might also be engulfed by shame and guilt. For many years our soul seems to be starved
for some air. How can one encounter this
God who does not condemn but loves us as we are?
The Sacrament of
Reconciliation which seems to have lost a lot of its appeal in today’s world is
one way of encountering this God of life who is yearning to liberate us from
our shame and guilt and invites us to new life.
Most of us would have difficulty in imagining ourselves as God’s work of
art. It takes less effort to see
ourselves as God’s mistakes. It is
Gospel that we were created in God’s love, that we are God’s work of art. We need to start imagining ourselves as God
see us. If only more people would
experience this reality. We would not
need to always resort to medication. Lent
gives us the opportunity to reflect again about the task of restoration and
allow God to bring out the best of us. Like
all restorers, God needs light to work. We
should trust God’s good intentions and come out where we can be seen. Who knows, we might even begin to value God’s
work ourselves. And if that happened, we
might see more of God’s art in other people.
Healing happens when we allow ourselves to be touched by God’s mercy. I would like to encourage you to seek an
opportunity for the Sacrament of Reconciliation this Lent. There is actually an
opportunity for you if you wish, to come to St James’ on Monday evening at
7.30pm to the Lenten Reconciliation Service.
There will be different priests to go to. It is an opportunity for us to encounter this
God of mercy as a community and individuals, who is yearning to liberate us
from our guilt and shame and restore us into life again. I pray that you will risk allowing him to do
this in you. God’s continual blessings
on your Lenten Journey!
The Sign of Peace During Mass
As we are in the middle of winter, and flu and cold viruses are currently
very active, it will be perfectly ok (and probably much wiser!) for the time
being to offer each other 'the Sign of Peace’ at Mass by simply nodding and
smiling to those near you but without shaking hands. This will hopefully help our parish community
to maintain good health, as far as possible, so thank you for your cooperation.
“Drop-In”
Evening Surgeries
The
next surgery will be on Wednesday the 14th March 2018. Fr David will be available at 281A Crescent
Drive from 5.00-7.00pm and no appointment is necessary.
Liturgy Pillar
Eucharist Adoration
This takes place for an hour each Wednesday shortly after the morning Mass starting at 10.45 am and
finishing at 11.45 am. This Devotion
to the Eucharist is a time of silent prayer and quiet music. Everyone is welcome for all or part of this
time of prayer before the Blessed Sacrament.
First Friday of Month
- Eucharist Adoration also takes place on the 1st Friday of each month from 7.30–9.00pm and concludes
with Benediction. Everyone is welcome
for all or part of this time of prayer before the Blessed Sacrament.
Mass in celebration of
the Sacrament of Marriage
St George’s Cathedral 16th June 2018. If you are celebrating your 1st,
10th, 25th, 40th, 50th or 60th+
wedding anniversary this year and would like to attend the Mass then please
give your names as soon as possible. Forms
can be found at the back of the church.
Easter Choir (children)
We are still
looking for singers and musicians (violin, cello, recorder, guitar) for the
children's Easter choir on 1st April at the 9.15am Mass. There will be 2 rehearsals on Sundays (March 11, 25)
from 5-6pm in the main church. If your
child is aged 6-13 and would enjoy being part of this choir, please email your
interest to jennifer.baracho@gmail.com.
We look forward to enhancing this liturgical service with the talented
children in our parish.
Evangelisation Pillar
Lenten Programme
Stations
of the Cross
Every Sunday in Lent at
4.00pm.
Lenten Reconciliation Service
Monday 12th March at
7.30pm.
Re-enactment
of the Stations of the Cross – Palm Sunday
A Re-enactment of the
Stations of the Cross for the whole family is being produced on Sunday the 25th
March at 4.00pm – Palm Sunday. We are looking for Actors and Readers. All the family may take part in this Devotion. There will be two rehearsals:
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Saturday
the 24th March at 3pm – 4pm
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Sunday
the 25th March at 2pm – 3pm.
Come and experience the passion and death of Christ by
being part of the Greatest Story ever told.
Parish one day retreat at Worth Abbey
This event is now full.
Święconka
Polish
traditional blessing of Easter Baskets
Easter Saturday, 31st March, 11am - Please join us in continuing to celebrate this
colourful and engaging tradition by bringing your own “Święconka” to St
James’ for a short (15-20 min) blessing service. Blessing will be done in Polish and English. All very welcome.
Social Pillar
Wednesday Morning Coffee
We are in urgent need
for new people to go onto the Wednesday morning coffee rota. If you are interested, please contact the
parish office.
Dad and Me
The next meeting of Dad
and Me will be held at the community centre on Saturday 17th March at 10am –
11.30am.
Filipino Fiesta
The J&P Group is delighted to announce that the
Fiesta, held on Sunday 4th March in the Community Centre, was a great success, raising £2,091 for St Catherine’s in the
Philippines. Thanks to everyone involved
in organising, cooking, serving, entertaining, clearing up, and of course to
the 100+ guests who made the atmosphere so memorable. Special thanks to Marcy Garcia and her hard
working team of Filipino friends who gave us such a wonderful glimpse of their
culture and joy of life. £1,000 of the
total was donated by Marcy’s employer Concerto Partners, as part of their
community involvement policy, and we are very grateful to them.
Youth Pillar
St James’ Youth Group
The next Junior Youth
Group will be held on Saturday 17th March in the Community centre from Noon to
2pm. £1.50 per session - which includes
lunch.
Careers Fair
As part of the CYM
programme for this year, we are currently planning a Careers Fair for young
people on Saturday 21st
April from 10.30-2.30pm here at St James’.
The aim of this event is to assist and equip young
people in making decisions regarding their future and to provide information
and guidance on a range of opportunities available to them, such as:
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Interview skills training
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CV assistance and advice
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Peer Ministry & GAP year opportunities
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Vocations advice
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Modern day apprenticeships
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Information stands:
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NHS
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Teaching
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Armed Forces
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Workshop talks/ Q&A re: pursuing faith at
University, advice and guidance for parents
We would be very grateful for any help on the day and
particularly with interview training, CV writing or general advice regarding
any of the opportunities or industries listed above. If you would like to become involved or know
of individuals who may have key experience or core skills to share
please get in touch. All suggestions, comments and ideas regarding
the plan for this event are welcome and encouraged. Please contact Susan Longhurst on -susan.longhurst@bromleydeanery.org.
Thank you.
The Parish Pastoral
Council
The next meeting of the Parish Pastoral Council will take place on
Wednesday 14th March at 7.30pm in the Community Centre. You may raise any relevant
issue using the PPC mailbox which is ppc@stjamespettswood.org.
200 Club
Firstly, thank you so much for joining the 200 Club which has proved to
be a great success in the past year with over £6000
being raised for Church funds.
We now have 181 members and since April last year there have been 39
winners, one parishioner winning twice, two winning £500 each in the Summer and
Christmas draws.
The new year starts on 1st April with the first draw taking place on the
2nd Sunday of each month. As many of you
paid by cheque last year and assuming you wish to continue paying this way I
shall be grateful if you will send a cheque for £60 payable to St James 200
Club for the attention of Ken Evans at the Parish Office – 281A Crescent Drive,
Petts Wood. BR5 1AY.
If, however you wish to pay by standing order at £5 per month (payable on
the 1st of the month) please contact Ken Evans.
I do hope you will continue
to support this excellent fund-raising initiative and thank you again for your
generous support.
Justice & Peace
Foodbank – change to
requirements
The Foodbank has at
last run out of soup! So tinned soup is
now back on the list of requirements, but incredibly they still don’t need
pasta or baked beans. Other items needed
are tinned potatoes, long life milk and fruit juice, rice, pulses, shampoo and
toothbrushes. Thanks to our contributors,
we have delivered an average of 35kg to the Foodbank each week this year so
far.
Polite Reminder
The Parish
disabled parking spaces are for Blue Badge holders only.
Pastoral Pillar
Helplines and Counselling
Services
As part of our care for the community a list of helplines and counselling
services has now been added to the parish website and also, placed in the porch. The purpose of this is to give contact
details of various organisations which can provide help in difficult
times thereby enabling people to seek privately the information and
support they may need.
Seeing a Chaplain if
You Are Admitted to Hospital
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Protecting personal information (data protection) is really
important when you become an inpatient in hospital.
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So please specifically ask hospital
staff to pass on your details
to the hospital’s Roman Catholic chaplain as soon as you are admitted if you
would like a Chaplain to visit you.
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Fr David would always be very happy to visit you too, so please ask a
relative or friend to let him know about your admission. You, or they, can email Fr David on father.david@stjamespettswood.org, or phone the parish office on 01689
827100.
Weekend Rotas: Thank you for helping.
Saturday 17th March 2018 |
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Cleaning the Church |
A Haylock, A Crosland, G MacManus, K Evans |
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Wednesday Coffee 21st March |
Volunteers needed |
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18th March 2018 |
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Mass |
Saturday 6pm (Vigil) |
Sunday 9.15am |
Sunday 11am |
Welcomers |
L
Ruber |
C
Cook L
Thomas |
S
Ingle J
Ingle |
Readers |
A
Prifti J
Wedderspoon |
S
Cotta B
Cotta |
Z
Bajorek R
Del Guercio |
Ministers of Holy Communion |
P
Driscoll R
Wright A
Guyton P
Cantopher J
Gribben |
B
Cotta B
D’Arcy T
Forde M
Smith M
Howell |
V
Terry N
Longhurst T
Willard R
Mwansa K
Chan |
Bar |
F
Simon, B Fleeman, P Troy |
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Coffee |
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L
Lynch S
Barradell |
M
Harrington S
Paris R
Scott |
Altar Servers |
A
Lynch, P Marshall |
Tellers |
P
Benson, N Longhurst |