Thank you for your offerings last week of £1,451. Mass attendance775. Second collection for Poor Parishes on 11th
February was £468.59. |
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3rd March (Saturday Vigil) |
Third Sunday Of Lent 6pm People of The
Parish |
Sunday 4th March |
9.15am Francesca Sio RIP (Sio Family) 11am In Thanksgiving on
40th Wedding Anniversary (M&P Davey) |
Monday 5th March |
Feria 9.30am Ann & Peter Auggiero |
Tuesday 6th March |
Feria 9.30am Allan Logan RIP &
Luisito Espinosa RIP (S Logan) |
Wednesday 7th March |
Feria 9.30am Teresa & Hugh
Ford |
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10.45am Eucharistic Adoration |
Thursday 8th March |
Feria |
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9.30am John McAuliffe RIP (M L Cooper) |
Friday 9th March |
Feria 9.30am Deceased members of the
Fenner Family |
10th March (Saturday Vigil) |
Fourth Sunday of Lent 6pm Anthony Olivelle RIP (M Olivelle) |
Sunday 11th March |
9.15am Francesca Sio RIP (Sio Family) 11am People of The Parish |
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Confessions heard Saturday
5.00-5.45pm or by appointment.
Morning Prayer: Takes place Monday –
Friday at 9.10am. All are welcome to
attend.
Pondering the Word (Lectio Divina)
A quiet reflective look
at the following Sunday’s Gospel. Mondays
11am - 12 noon, except for Bank Holidays, here in the church. All welcome.
Sunday Mornings in the Community Centre
Every Sunday coffee and tea
are served after the 9.15am and 11am Masses.
Please join us for a while and get to know each other over a cuppa!
Fr David writes…
I have been inspired
these last couple of weeks seeing so many young people on the streets in
America protesting angrily at those who have the power to bring change in gun
laws in the USA after once again another fatal tragedy in the school in
Parkland. Their anger is real, raw and
well-articulated. And most of us are
hoping that this time, something would have to change. We all feel angry at some point in our lives. It is part of being human. Anger is a natural response to feeling
attacked, deceived, frustrated or treated unjustly. Our perception of being angry is conditioned
by how our parents or guardians have helped us or hindered us to understand
this powerful emotion. Another possible
element which helps or hinders our expression of anger might also be our
cultural conditioning. Some cultures are
more liable to give permission in order to articulate
or express anger than others. For some
cultures it is not appropriate at any cost to express anger. And if so, what can one do with one’s
feelings of anger? Where would the
feelings of anger be channelled then?
Actually in reality, anger is not always a “bad emotion”. In fact it can be useful. Feeling angry about something can help us
identify problems or things that are hurting us. Acknowledging anger can motivate us to create
change in situations and make a difference in other’s lives. In fact most of the cultural changes that have
happened in the world are the consequences of people feeling angry at the
injustice of the situation. Also anger
can help us defend ourselves in dangerous situations by giving us a burst of
energy. Anger only becomes a problem
when it harms us or people around us. This
can happen when we express anger through destructive behaviour. Or else when anger is having a negative
impact on our overall mental and physical health. And so in that case one needs help in anger
management by professionals.
Unhelpful ways of anger
can be for example, outward aggression and violence such as shouting, slamming
doors, hitting or throwing things and being physically violent or verbally
abusive and threatening towards others. It
also can be harmful if we internalise aggression. Such as telling yourself that you hate
yourself, denying yourself your basic needs, isolating yourself from the world
and self-harming. Another way of
unhealthy expression of anger is called passive aggressive such as ignoring
people or refusing to speak to them, refusing to do tasks or deliberately doing
things poorly, late or at the last possible minute and being sarcastic or sulky
while not saying anything explicitly aggressive or angry. Thus anger as such is not a mental problem. It’s a normal part of life. However if we often struggle to manage
feelings of anger, it can be very stressful and might negatively affect our
self-esteem. This can lead one to experiencing
problems like depression, eating problems or self-harm. It can also contribute to sleep problems and
problems with alcohol or substance abuse.
As we have seen, it is very clear that anger is a very powerful emotion
that if used well can help us make a difference in life, however if we do not
tackle it well, it has the power to make our lives and those of others, hell.
Jesus’ anger in today’s
gospel towards those who desecrated the temple by exploitation and corruption,
compels him to act to restore the temple to what it was intended to be – a
house of prayer for all people. The
temple is the focus of today’s gospel. For
the traders the time of the Passover was an opportunity not to be missed. In a few weeks they could accumulate more
gains than throughout the rest of the year.
It was difficult for the temple priests to resist the temptation to get
into so profitable a turnover. In fact
during the three weeks before Easter, pilgrims to the temple were expected to make a donation for its upkeep. Because Roman currency was considered
unclean, Jewish visitors had to change their money into Jewish currency in order to make their temple gift. Money changers whose tables lined the outer
courts of the temple, charged exorbitant fees.
Visitors who wished to have a sacrifice offered on the temple altar
would sometimes have to pay fifteen or twenty times the market rate for the
animals purchased in the temple.
Jesus’ anger, toppling of the vendors booths and
tables, is a condemnation of the injustice, exploitation and corruption of the
faithful in the name of God. So empty
and meaningless has their worship become that God will establish a new temple
in the resurrected body of the Christ. The
leaders and people do not appreciate the deeper meaning of Jesus’ words. Jesus in today’s gospel redefines the temple
from a place of stone and mortar to a community of people centred in his
resurrected body. Jesus’ cleansing of
the temple challenges us to take a look at our own
parish temple with Lenten eyes. We are
keenly invited to realise that Christ has called us to make our own churches,
houses of God’s compassion, mercy and peace to keep on refocusing all we do on
a parish level. Rather than barter
access to God, the parish is a place where we celebrate God’s presence in our
midst in our good times and in those less good.
Maybe during this Lenten journey this week, we can reflect about how can
we channel our anger into positive emotion.
On a parish level, we might take time to reflect on how has a particular ministry been an experience of unexpected grace
for both those who serve and those served? In what ways does our parish realise Jesus’
vision of “my Father’s House” in today’s gospel? May God keep on blessing us as individuals and
parish at this time.
The Sign of Peace During Mass
As we are in the middle of winter, and flu and cold viruses are currently
very active, it will be perfectly ok (and probably much wiser!) for the time
being to offer each other 'the Sign of Peace’ at Mass by simply nodding and
smiling to those near you but without shaking hands. This will hopefully help our parish community
to maintain good health, as far as possible, so thank you for your cooperation.
“Drop-In”
Evening Surgeries
The
next surgery will be on Wednesday the 7th March 2018. Fr David will be available at 281A Crescent
Drive from 5.00-7.00pm and no appointment is necessary.
Holy Baptism
This weekend we welcome, through Holy Baptism, Phoebe
Charlotte Sudario Mulhall and her parents Joseph and
Malka.
Liturgy Pillar
Eucharist Adoration
This takes place for an hour each Wednesday shortly after the morning Mass starting at 10.45 am and
finishing at 11.45 am. This Devotion
to the Eucharist is a time of silent prayer and quiet music. Everyone is welcome for all or part of this time
of prayer before the Blessed Sacrament.
First Friday of Month
- Eucharist Adoration also takes place on the 1st Friday of each month from 7.30–9.00pm and concludes
with Benediction. Everyone is welcome
for all or part of this time of prayer before the Blessed Sacrament.
Mass in celebration of
the Sacrament of Marriage
St George’s Cathedral 16th June 2018. If you are celebrating your 1st,
10th, 25th, 40th, 50th or 60th+
wedding anniversary this year and would like to attend the Mass then please
give your names as soon as possible. Forms
can be found at the back of the church.
Easter Choir (children)
We are still
looking for singers and musicians (violin, cello, recorder, guitar) for the
children's Easter choir on 1st April at the 9.15am Mass. There will be 3 rehearsals on Sundays (Feb 25, March
11, 25) from 5-6pm in the main church. If
your child is aged 6-13 and would enjoy being part of this choir, please email
your interest to jennifer.baracho@gmail.com.
We look forward to enhancing this liturgical service with the talented
children in our parish.
Evangelisation Pillar
During his recent visit
to St James', Fr Fio promoted his book INFINITE POWER! (Bible Gems for Daily
Life).
The Repository has a
stock of these books for sale at £5 each.
Some are also available from the table opposite the main doors (please
give money to the Repository or into the “Papers” box at the back of the church).
Please also note that the Repository is at the back of
the church, is open after each Sunday Mass, and has a good
selection of religious items, crucifixes, plaques, cards, books for
adults and children, First Communion and Confirmation gifts, etc. Do come in and have a look around.
Lenten Programme
Stations
of the Cross
Every Sunday in Lent at
4.00pm, except on 4th March when it will be
at 3.00pm. This is to allow Fr
David and yourselves to attend the Filipino Fiesta.
Evening
Talk on HANDEL’S MESSIAH
Wednesday
7th March 8.00pm
This will take place in the Community Hall, when Margaret Connell, one of our parishioners, will
explore this wonderful piece of music with us as part of our Lenten Preparation. She will talk about its composition and share
its messages of life and death, providence, sacrifice, resurrection and
redemption.
“…..Handel’s Messiah has been heard in all parts of the
kingdom with reverence and delight; it has fed the hungry, clothed the naked
and fostered the orphan…..” [Burney]
Lenten Reconciliation Service
Monday 12th March at
7.30pm.
Re-enactment
of the Stations of the Cross – Palm Sunday
A Re-enactment of the
Stations of the Cross for the whole family is being produced on Sunday the 25th
March at 4.00pm – Palm Sunday. We are looking for Actors and Readers. All the family may take part in this Devotion. There will be two rehearsals:
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Saturday
the 24th March at 3pm – 4pm
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Sunday
the 25th March at 2pm – 3pm.
Come and experience the passion and death of Christ by
being part of the Greatest Story ever told.
Parish one day retreat at Worth Abbey
This event is now full.
Outside the Parish
National
Catholic Men’s Pilgrimage to Walsingham - Sunday
22nd April 2018, 10.30-17.30
A warm invitation to the first, annual pilgrimage for
Catholic men. Meet, talk and share the
faith with other men; listen to speakers, celebrate confession and Mass, pray
for families and for the country; process to the old Abbey grounds for
Benediction. We welcome lay and
religious, single and married, young and old, fathers and sons. "When England returns to Walsingham,
Our Lady will return to England". Pope
Leo XIII, 1887
In partnership with the Catholic National Shrine of
Our Lady and Catholic Man UK. For more
information visit www.catholicman.co.uk
Lenten Talks by Canon Leonard Mintoff
At St John the Baptist, Westerham.
Monday 12th – Friday 16th March 7.30pm Mass followed by talk.
200 Club
Firstly, thank you so much for joining the 200 Club which has proved to
be a great success in the past year with over £6000
being raised for Church funds.
We now have 181 members and since April last year there have been 39
winners, one parishioner winning twice, two winning £500 each in the Summer and
Christmas draws.
The new year starts on 1st
April with the first draw taking place on the 2nd Sunday of each month. As many of you paid by cheque last year and
assuming you wish to continue paying this way I shall be grateful if you will
send a cheque for £60 payable to St James 200 Club for the attention of Ken
Evans at the Parish Office – 281A Crescent Drive, Petts Wood. BR5 1AY.
If, however you wish to pay by standing order at £5 per month (payable on
the 1st of the month) please contact
Ken Evans.
I do hope you will continue
to support this excellent fund-raising initiative and thank you again for your
generous support.
Justice & Peace
Foodbank – change to requirements
The Foodbank has at last run out of soup! So tinned soup is now back on the list of
requirements, but incredibly they still don’t need pasta or baked beans. Other items needed are tinned potatoes, long
life milk and fruit juice, rice, pulses, shampoo and toothbrushes. Thanks to our contributors, we have delivered
an average of 35kg to the Foodbank each week this year so far.
CAFOD Lent Fast Day
The collection raised
£1,962 including gift aid last week. With
the government match funding this means that CAFOD will receive about £3,600 as a result of the generosity shown by the parishioners of
St James’. We also know, from the
comments made to envelope distributors, that many parishioners support CAFOD
with regular giving by direct debit. If
you have any concerns following the recent safeguarding issues with aid
organisations, please read the comprehensive statements made by CAFOD available
on our notice board. Thank you again,
J&P Group.
Polite Reminder
The Parish
disabled parking spaces are for Blue Badge holders only.
Seeing a Chaplain if
You Are Admitted to Hospital
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Protecting personal information (data protection) is really
important when you become an inpatient in hospital.
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So please specifically ask hospital
staff to pass on your details
to the hospital’s Roman Catholic chaplain as soon as you are admitted if you
would like a Chaplain to visit you.
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Fr David would always be very happy to visit you too, so please ask a
relative or friend to let him know about your admission. You, or they, can email Fr David on father.david@stjamespettswood.org,
or phone the parish office on 01689 827100.
Weekend Rotas: Thank you for helping.
Saturday 10th March 2018 |
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Cleaning the Church |
Readers and Altar Servers |
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Wednesday Coffee 14th March |
S Barradell, B D’Arcy |
11th March 2018 |
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Mass |
Saturday 6pm (Vigil) |
Sunday 9.15am |
Sunday 11am |
Welcomers |
M
Walters |
B
Guyton A
Guyton |
Uniformed
Groups |
Readers |
K
Lams L
Rusmini |
A
Coughlan R
Lim |
Parade
Mass |
Ministers of Holy Communion |
J
Bajorek T
Babb B
Babb C
Cosgrave P
Cosgrave |
A
Guyton M
Smith W
david B
D’Arcy T
Forde |
R
Del Guercio Z
Bajorek T
Troy A
Bunnage P
Murray |
Bar |
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M
Smith N
Longhurst |
Coffee |
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G
Brookes D
Brookes |
T
Troy J
Cosgrave |
Altar Servers |
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Tellers |
M
Shea, T Wrafter, K Evans |